Father’s Day, which is on June 15, is a time to honor and appreciate the men who lead, protect, and provide for their families. But it is also a time to reflect on what it truly means to be a father, not just in the cultural sense, but in the Biblical sense. In the parable of the Prodigal Son, we see a picture of God as a Father: full of compassion, wisdom, and faithfulness.
Let us learn from the heart of the Heavenly Father, so we may reflect it in our own families and communities.
First, lead with unchanging love.
Luke 15:20 says, “But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him…”
In ancient Jewish culture, a son who demanded his inheritance early was essentially wishing his father dead. The father had every right to reject his return. Instead, he ran to him and embraced him. This was a radical act of grace.
Fathers are called not to be perfect, but to love unconditionally. This love is not permissive; it is persistent. Children may fail, wander, or rebel, but a father’s love mirrors God’s: steadfast and merciful.
A father’s love shapes how a child understands the love of God.
Second, forgive with open arms.
Luke 15:22-24, “Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him… For this son of mine was dead and is alive again.”
In the Jewish culture, a son who dishonored the family would be shunned. The community might perform a “cutting off” ritual. But this father restored him immediately – with a robe, a ring, and a feast. These are symbols of restored identity and full acceptance.
Forgiveness is not weakness; it is the strength of fatherhood. Holding grudges closes hearts. Forgiveness opens them. A father who forgives mirrors the Gospel.
Third, model faith in daily life.
Luke 15:25–28, “Meanwhile, the older son was in the field…”
The older son was hardworking, obedient but angry and bitter. He felt unrewarded. The father went out to him too, inviting him into the celebration. The father shows patience to both the wayward and the dutiful son. Both needed grace.
Children observe not only what fathers say, but how they live. This means modeling prayer, worship, and faith in God.
Start your day with prayer. Involve your children in Bible reading and devotionals. Bring your family to church.
Remember Proverbs 20:7 that says, “The righteous man walks in his integrity; his children are blessed after him.” | NWI
