December is a cherished month for Filipinos, marked by vibrant traditions and family gatherings, especially the Noche Buena feast on Christmas Eve. This celebration often includes attending Simbang Gabi, a series of nine dawn masses starting December 16, believed to grant wishes to those who complete them. Expatriates in regions where Christmas is less openly celebrated, like the Middle East, may find it challenging to maintain these traditions, making the absence of Noche Buena particularly poignant. The Filipino Christmas spirit thrives on community, faith, and the joy of togetherness.
Once, I missed celebrating Christmas with my family because the plane scheduled to leave Micronesia had an engine problem. So, instead of flying back on the 23rd, we left the island on the 24th and was greeted Merry Christmas by the crew above the skies. Maybe a unique experience, but too painful for the nurses who wished to be with their family on Christmas eve. Good I only experienced it once, but for them it may take another 3-5 years to join in a noche buena in the Philippines. How are the lives of our new heroes, the OFW’s, who had to bear loneliness brought by homesickness every Christmas. Might need to interview my wife’s cousin, Jonathan Popen, how he spends Christmas on a crew ship away from family.
During our first year in Saudi Arabia, hearing “Pasko na sinta ko…” in a Filipino restaurant nearly brought us to tears. While Jose Marie Chan’s “Christmas in Our Hearts” might have evoked a different response, Jon Gavino would likely feel the same.
Filipinos celebrate Christmas in unique ways, often extravagantly. This year, our busy schedules prevented us from setting up a Belen, but thanks to BJMP Taguig and Warden JM Sabeniano, we displayed parols made by PDL (People Deprived of Liberty). Many parents also ordered beautifully-lit parols of various sizes.
As Christians, celebrating Christmas serves as a reminder of the birth of Jesus Christ, the “greatest gift” to humanity. While traditions may vary, the essence lies in reflecting on Christ’s significance and sharing joy with others. Many schools now opt for convenience in celebrations, often choosing fast food venues, which can detract from the deeper meaning of the season. It’s vital to focus on Christ’s message rather than superficial aspects, ensuring that our celebrations honor His birth and encourage a spirit of gratitude and love among believers.
This December, the anticipated rush for dining out and grocery shopping may be subdued compared to previous years. However, as the 13th month bonus is released, many expect increased spending on gifts and festive meals, especially traditional items like ham and spaghetti. Community initiatives, such as preparing noche buena packs for the less fortunate, continue to be a cherished tradition among families and students. Despite a more quiet atmosphere, festive food trends like gourmet seafood and innovative grazing boards are gaining popularity this season.
We normally give gifts to our community every December. The shift in recipient focus from informal settlers to tricycle drivers has sparked debate about entitlement and obligation during the Christmas season. A woman argued that tricycle drivers, who are regular beneficiaries, should be prioritized. This reflects a broader concern where charitable acts can become perceived rights, especially during election periods when politicians capitalize on such sentiments.
The essence of Christmas, rooted in Christ’s teachings, emphasizes genuine giving rather than obligation, urging a reflection on the true spirit of generosity and community support during the holidays. ||
